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Shame : free yourself, find joy, and build true self-esteem

Burgo, Joseph, (Psychologist)2018
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Encounters with embarrassment, guilt, self-consciousness and remorse are an unavoidable part of everyday life, and they sometimes have lessons to teach us - about our goals and values, about the person we expect ourselves to be. Richly illustrated with clinical stories from Burgo's 35 years in private practice, Shame suggests that this often excruciating emotion tells us a lot about our own self-awareness, and should not always be considered a toxic influence in our lives. Joseph Burgo takes an intimate look at the full spectrum of shame - often masked by addiction, promiscuity, perfectionism, self-loathing, or narcissism - and offers a new, positive route forward on the road to authentic self-esteem.
Imprint:
Sydney : Macmillan Australia, 2018.Sydney, NSW : Macmillan by Pan Macmillan Australia, 2018.©2018.
Collation:
xvii, 299 pages ; 24 cm.
Notes:
Mental wellbeing.Includes bibliographical references (pages 297-299)
Contents:
The shame spectrum -- The shame family of emotions -- The value of shame -- Unloved and left out -- Exposed and disappointed -- Joy and the birth of self-esteem -- Shame and the growth of self-esteem -- The masks of shame -- Avoiding shame -- Social anxiety (Lizzie) -- Indifference (Dean) -- Promiscuity and addiction (Noah) -- Avoiding shame in everyday life -- Denying shame -- The idealized false self (Anna) -- Superiority and contempt (Caleb) -- Blame and indignation (Nicole) -- Denying shame in everyday life -- Controlling shame -- Self-mockery (Nora) -- Self-hatred (Ryan) -- Masochism (James) -- Controlling shame in everyday life -- From shame to self-esteem -- Shame defiance and narrow identity -- Shame resilience and expanding identity -- Building pride -- Sharing joy -- Appendix 1: Pre-test scoring and discussion -- Appendix 2: Exercises -- Acknowledgments -- Notes -- Bibliography.
ISBN:
9781760783679 (paperback)
Dewey class:
152.44
Language:
English
Index terms:
Australian
BRN:
253435
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